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March 2014

March 30, 2014

My Own Space

My ex-wife lived with me for 3 months following our decision to get a divorce. The first month was hell, the rest was okay with moments of unpleasantness.

I gave up keeping my house as clean as I wanted it. She wasn’t as into keeping it clean as I was, and it got dreary trying to keep up with both of our messes. So I let her stuff pile up, kept small corners of cleanliness for myself, and held out until her house funding came through.

Most of her things are gone. I am amazed at how much joy I get from making a space my own. I haven’t done that in 4 years.

March 29, 2014

Daily Habits

I love the idea of daily habits. Most of mine don’t stick. Drawing is one of them. What if I had stuck with that daily habit for drawing I set 20 years, 15 years, 10 years, or 5 years ago?

This time it’s not daily quite yet. I think you need at least a month of a daily habit to call it such. Maybe more. This is more like day 3. After skipping a day.

March 27, 2014

Together We Do Ok

I made this shortly after I received notice that my divorce was finalized. I’m very glad it’s not like one of those divorces that you see on TV. There was drama, but boring drama. Not tune-in-and-watch drama.